I have always loved the song Brotherly Love by Earl Thomas Conley. When I was young I used to think of the bond my brother shared and even the bond I had with my brothers. They could pick on me all they wanted and it was okay, but you better believe that when somebody else was picking on me, they better run. When I first got married to Chantry, he would listen to that song quite often and all I could think about was the great bond he had with his brothers. Now that I have boys of my own, I can only think of the song being about my two boys.
I have seen a brotherly bond already created with Channer and Chestyn. Now that Chestyn can move and play with Channer's toys, they don't get along so well. Channer is constantly asking me to move Chestyn or get him away. Chestyn may only be 9 months, but he knows exactly what he is doing because when Channer screams and cries, Chestyn smiles and laughs. In the last couple months Channer has gone from the sweetest big brother to the meanest big brother. He pushes Chestyn out of his way, pulls him across the room, and takes away his toys. I just smile and laugh a little (after the lexture of course) because I know he love him...how do I know? Well I have caught Channer sticking up for his brother a few times already.
The other day we were at my nephew Tyrell's birthday party and all the kids were on the floor playing. Channer and his cousin Stetson have a rivalry with each other for some reason. They have really close to the same personality (independent, somewhat shy, and very stubborn) and they just can't seem to get along. Well Chestyn kept going over and trying to play with Stetson's toys and Stetson was getting mad just like Channer usually does. All of the sudden I hear Channer say "you better be nice to him and let him have that". Stetson yells "no", Channer yells "yes" and that goes back and fourth about 10 times until I stopped it because they were both starting to get REALLY mad. Well Channer said to me "he was meant o my brother and he cannot do that". I wanted to say to Channer that he does it all the time to him and its okay, so whats the difference, but I just sat back and smiled at the fact that Channer and Chestyn already have this bond.
I really LOVE my boys!!

We shared the same last name and the same color eyes, But we fought like tigers over that old red bike. "I'm battin' first and you can't use my glove." It wouldn't take long until push came to shove. But we looked out for each other,With brotherly love.
You hated girls 'til I had my first date. I brought her home from the movies; you stayed up late. Three on the couch watchin' T.V. I was smilin' at her while you were laughin' at me. But, I wouldn't trade it for nothin'.Brotherly love.
There's a bond that brothers know, And it gets stronger as they grow. A love that time and miles can't come between. We disagree but in the end, There will never be two closer friends. And brotherly love is something we all need.
They share the same last name and the same color eyes, But they fight like tigers over one ol' red bike. And lookin' at them reminds me of us. They're gonna fight and they're gonna fuss. But, they've got something special, It's brotherly love.
Yeah, they've got something special, It's brotherly love.